We all have friendships with people from work, church, family, and clubs, to name a few, but having a best friend is different. You may have more than one best friend, but I would venture to say you probably only have one, two at most. Dont get a best friend and close friend confused. A…Read more My Best Friend
Month: November 2025
The Burnt Turkey
Thanksgiving is once more upon us. I know I have been through 64 of them, and 58 of them I remember. I remember Thanksgivings growing up. My mom would burn the turkey every year, the dinner rolls were always burnt and black on the bottom, so everyone would cut off the bottom and after dinner,…Read more The Burnt Turkey
Are your Fruits Showing?
I'm not really keen on getting on social media. There is just too much trash, lies, and scams—everything that disgusts me. So I limit myself to very little time. With all the bad on social media, there are some good things. I enjoy reading posts from fellow model railroaders, getting advice, giving advice, and seeing…Read more Are your Fruits Showing?
Losing A Friend
I found out a month ago that one of my few best friends was diagnosed with leukemia. When I called her to find out what was going on, she was in very good spirits, as the doctors had told her that the type of leukemia she has is very treatable and she should make a…Read more Losing A Friend
Amazing!
I was thinking about my nose. Strange, right? Have you ever wondered if our nose was placed somewhere different on our face or body? What would it be like if our nose were on our forehead? We would probably be bumping it all the time; we would have to wear hats differently. Would we let…Read more Amazing!
Prayful Heart
Years ago, I used to have a bit of a phobia when it came to praying with other believers. I was always concerned that I didn't pray well enough. I would hear others pray, and it always seemed they knew exactly what to say and exactly what I was thinking. I was concerned because I…Read more Prayful Heart
Am I Saved?
As I was reading through other blogs the other day, I came across a subject that many Christians have asked. The question was raised: Can a Christian ever lose their salvation? I am going to list some scripture so you can search for the answer for yourself. My own belief is that once you're saved,…Read more Am I Saved?
Journey
When I was young, my thoughts were all playful, free from worry or shame. I only knew of freedom and childhood games. Into my teens, my life started to rearrange. I began seeing the world, how would I change? Now, in my forties, being successful, and sure. I wasn't content, so I looked for a…Read more Journey
You’ve Got Personality
We know there are two types of individuals: extroverts and introverts. Even though we find ourselves in one of these two groups, there are different personality types. Generally, we will have two sides to our personality. The first side is who we are; the second is how we handle them or how we outwardly show…Read more You’ve Got Personality
I See You
When people meet you for the first time, what do they see? What do friends and family see? How we express ourselves is an outward expression of who we are inside as individuals. Part of this is our personality, which has developed over the years and was rooted when we were young and impressionable. Some…Read more I See You
Celebrate
My heart has been heavy the last couple of days, and I felt strongly that God wanted me to share what was on it. Now, I am turning things around and rejoicing in this writing. I just read a post from one of the social pages that a fellow believer, a sister in Christ, was…Read more Celebrate
Suicide
Just recently, I had a co-worker whose brother committed suicide, and another brother is in critical condition after trying to take his life. You hear about people committing suicide all the time in the news. So what causes people to cross that boundary? Shortly after the news about my co-worker's brother, a younger male in…Read more Suicide
Life or Death
There are two things about life that are guaranteed: death and taxes. In the United States of America, Uncle Sam is going to get his money one way or another, and most of the time in many ways. It doesn't matter who you are; you will pay some kind of tax, whether it's on food,…Read more Life or Death
Horrible News
A few days ago, one of my co-workers brother, shot and killed his wife and then tried to take his own life. What a tragic event to have to hear about. Unfortunately, this kind of event happens way to often in our society. When pride, lust and greed take root in a person's life, all…Read more Horrible News
Patience
Remember growing up the excitement of waiting for Christmas Eve or Christmas morning? Checking each package under the tree to find which ones had your name on them? At our house, we had to wait until Christmas morning to open gifts. The anticipation of waiting to see if I got what I really wanted was…Read more Patience
Thought
Most of us have heard the statement, or even said it, "WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?" I know I have even said it to myself from time to time. I have been thinking (pun intended) just what that means. Obviously, when someone uses that phrase in a question to you, it means you did something completely…Read more Thought
WHOA!
I was a healthy child growing up. I would get the flue once in a while, but generally was very healthy. Like most children, I had the measles and chicken pox, but avoided most everything else. My healthiness continued until I turned 52. My health started changing, and I found myself going to the doctor…Read more WHOA!
Change
Most of the time, my family will tell you that I am a very even-tempered person. I don't fly off the handle often, always try to lend a helping hand when I can, and consider myself a giving individual—someone who loves his family. Sounds like I'm patting myself on the back, right? Hold on just…Read more Change
Lake Effect
Northern Indiana got its first snowfall of the season the other night. Where I live, we had around 4". Further west, about 18". We do get our share of system snow—storms that track from west to east. In our region, we have what they call "lake-effect snow." This happens when the cold air is pushed…Read more Lake Effect
Voice
I've heard it, and I am sure you have heard it at times: "God told me this, God told me that." Can you actually hear God talking to you like you're conversing with a friend over a meal? The answer is technically NO; however, a Christian will hear God speak to them. This is a…Read more Voice
Narcissism
Have you ever noticed how many people blame everybody else for their problems, but they never see fault in what they do?The most common word for this type of person is narcissists. What makes a person act this way? Here are my thoughts: A person may act this way to protect a fragile ego. It…Read more Narcissism
OH, Coffee Beans
I've been drinking coffee for a really long time. I don't remember when I drank my first cup, but I know I wasn't a teenager yet. My parents used to tell me it would stunt my growth, but as it turned out, I am the tallest in my family. My coffee consumption in my younger…Read more OH, Coffee Beans
The Care Giver
My wife is a caregiver. She started out in a nursing home doing dishes and then moved into caring for the elderly. Her mother was a nurse for 51 years, so I guess it was just natural for my wife to pick up some of that caregiving gift. I called it a gift because it…Read more The Care Giver
3D Printing
I've been 3D printing now for around 3 years. I have always gone to a couple of 3D printing websites and used the free downloads of somebody else's designs because I really didn't have the time to learn how to use the design software myself. Now that I am mostly retired (still working 2 or…Read more 3D Printing
Introverts
We all have a personality trait. There are many books written about it. Most of us put our personality in one of two categories. You are either an extrovert or an introvert. In this blog, I'm focusing on introverts simply because I am one of them. I was reading about different personalities, and this one…Read more Introverts
Hobbies
There are many, many different hobbies that people enjoy. My hobby is model railroading. How did I start in model railroading and why? My interest in trains started when I was young. All my life, I have lived by a main railroad yard, and there wouldn't be a day that passed that you didn’t hear…Read more Hobbies
Two as One
Recently, I attended a friend's wedding. I always like going to weddings (the ceremony part anyway). I'm an introvert, so at the reception, I either won't go or spend very little time there. As I sat and witnessed the marriage, I thought about how much joy and how much in love the two people are.…Read more Two as One
Gears
When you are driving a car, you usually don't think about it, but there are many things inside the automobile that have to work perfectly together. If they don't, you will likely experience either a rough ride, maybe strange noises, or it may not run at all. Within every automobile, there are gears. Gears are…Read more Gears