If you watch TV just a little or watch the news, you can’t help but hear about the new movie that is out called 50 shades of Gray. While I was waiting on my Mother at the doctor’s office, CBS This Morning took the whole program and did nothing but talk about this women degrading movie. I was shocked to say the least, at how many people think this is one of the best movies to come out! What a man and woman do in the bedroom is their business and only their business. To make a movie only about sexual fantasies is mind numbing to me and only shows how badly the American culture has sunk to.
You might think this sounds funny coming from a man, but there is so much more about women than sex and how she looks. Women by God’s design were made not to serve man but to help man. There is a big difference between serve and help. To serve is more of an obligation, To help is willing to serve without obligation. God’s design for women is to help aid the man in his weaknesses, making the man stronger in order to help the woman become stronger in her weaknesses. God’s plan for creating women was not for man to take advantage of her and make her second class. God made women to be a help-mate to become a team in order to accomplish what man cannot do on his own.  For men to use women and treat them anything less than equals, is going against everything that God made women for.
MEN: Women are to be loved and treated with respect. They are not second class creatures, they were not made to take advantage of, they are not slaves, doormats, servants to your desires or something you use and throw away. Women are man’s helpmate, co-worker in life.

I can not imagine my life as a man without the help of my mate. My woman shares all the laughter, heartaches, joys and tears with me and also builds me up when I’m down. She is my strength where I am weak and most of all, she is my best friend. She is the most cherished and cared for, only second to my Heavenly Father. At anytime, I would gladly give my life if it would save hers.

Women are a gift from God to help men. They should always be treated and cared for with respect.